Before Yes

Marriage Preparation App

Plan Your Future Together

The complete marriage readiness app with 100+ thoughtfully crafted questions to ensure you're ready for life's biggest commitment.

Download on App Store
Free to download
No account required
English & French

What Is a Marriage Preparation App ?

A marriage preparation app is a digital tool designed to help couples and individuals prepare for married life by guiding them through essential conversations about finances, family planning, values, and life goals. Unlike traditional premarital counseling, a marriage readiness app like Before Yes offers flexibility, privacy, and the ability to work through questions at your own pace.

Research shows that couples who discuss important topics before marriage report higher satisfaction and lower divorce rates. Before Yes makes these crucial conversations accessible to everyone, whether you're evaluating your own readiness in Solo Mode or testing compatibility with your partner in Couples Mode.

Everything You Need

Marriage Preparation Made Simple

Whether you're preparing solo or with your partner, Before Yes helps you navigate the important conversations before saying "I do."

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Solo Mode

Evaluate your own readiness with personal quizzes. Clarify life goals, assess emotional readiness, and identify relationship patterns at your own pace.

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Couples Mode

Create private rooms to answer questions independently, then compare responses instantly. Get compatibility scores and conversation starters for important topics.

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100+ Questions

Thoughtfully crafted questions covering finances, family planning, careers, values, and more. Based on research showing couples who discuss these topics build stronger relationships.

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Privacy First

No account required, no data collection. Your answers stay private and secure on your device. Complete anonymity guaranteed.

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Bilingual Support

Available in both English and French. Accessible to couples across different linguistic backgrounds.

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Beautiful Design

Intuitive, modern interface designed to make difficult conversations easier. Smooth, distraction-free experience focused on what matters.

Why Use a Marriage Preparation App ?

Join couples building stronger relationships through meaningful conversations

100+
Questions

Thoughtfully crafted questions covering all essential life decisions

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Modes

Solo readiness assessment and couples compatibility testing

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Accounts

No sign-up required. Complete privacy and anonymity guaranteed

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See It In Action

A beautiful, intuitive interface designed for meaningful conversations

What Couples Are Saying

Join couples who discovered new things about each other
before saying "I do"

"We thought we knew everything about each other after 3 years together. Before Yes showed us topics we never even considered discussing. The finance questions alone saved us from future arguments!"

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Sarah & Michael

Engaged, Toronto

"I used Solo Mode before getting serious with my boyfriend. It helped me understand what I truly want in a partner. Now we use Couples Mode together and it's been eye-opening!"

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Emily

Dating, New York

"As a marriage counselor, I recommend Before Yes to all my clients. It covers the essential conversations that many couples avoid. The privacy-first approach makes people more honest."

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Dr. Rachel Thompson

Marriage Counselor, LA

"La version française est parfaite ! Mon fiancé et moi avons utilisé l'app pendant notre voyage en France. Les questions sur la famille ont vraiment ouvert des discussions importantes."

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Julie & Laurent

Fiancés, Québec

"The no-account feature was huge for us. We didn't want our personal relationship data stored somewhere. Answering questions felt safe and private. Highly recommend!"

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Alex & Jordan

Newlyweds, Switzerland

"We almost called off our wedding after some heated arguments. Before Yes helped us work through our differences calmly. Turns out we agree on more than we thought!"

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David & Priya

Married 6 months, Chicago

Free Resources

Marriage Preparation Guides

Advice to help you prepare for marriage

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Marriage Preparation Checklist

50+ essential items to discuss before your wedding day.
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Am I Ready for Marriage ?

Discover the 12 key signs that show you're truly prepared to commit.
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50 Questions to Ask

Essential conversations every couple should have before saying "I do."
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Red Flags Before Marriage

Warning signs during engagement that deserve serious attention.
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How to Prepare for Marriage

The complete step-by-step guide for engaged couples.
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Got Questions ?

Frequently Asked Questions

Everything you need to know about Before Yes

What makes Before Yes different from other relationship apps ? +
Before Yes focuses specifically on marriage preparation with research-backed questions covering essential life decisions. Unlike dating apps or generic relationship quizzes, we help couples and individuals address the topics that matter most before making a lifelong commitment. Our dual-mode approach lets you prepare solo or together, ensuring both individual readiness and couple compatibility.
Do I need to create an account ? +
No! Before Yes is completely account-free. We believe in privacy-first design, so there's no sign-up. Just download and start exploring the questions that matter to you. Your answers stay private on your device.
How does Couples Mode work ? +
In Couples Mode, one partner creates a private room with a unique code. The other partner joins using that code. You both answer questions independently, then the app compares your responses in real-time, showing compatibility scores and highlighting areas for discussion. It's designed to spark meaningful conversations, not create conflict.
What topics do the questions cover ? +
Our 100+ questions cover essential life decisions including family planning, finances, career goals, living arrangements, religious beliefs, communication styles, emotional needs, family relationships, long-term goals, and shared values. These topics are based on research showing which conversations lead to stronger marriages.
Is Before Yes only for engaged couples ? +
Not at all! Before Yes is valuable for anyone in a serious relationship considering marriage, those already engaged, couples in premarital counseling, or even individuals who want to assess their own readiness before committing to a partnership. Solo Mode is perfect for personal reflection.
How much does it cost ? +
Before Yes is free to download with full access to core features. We offer optional in-app purchases for additional question sets and premium features. You can try everything risk-free to see if it's right for you and your partner.
Is Before Yes available in other languages ? +
Yes! Before Yes is currently available in English and French, making it accessible to couples across different linguistic backgrounds. We're working on adding more languages based on user feedback.

Ready to Start the Conversation ?

Download Before Yes today and take the first step toward a stronger, more intentional marriage.

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Join couples who are building stronger relationships through meaningful conversations